Party Rules

ClubFEM members agree to abide by the following ClubFEM protocol at parties and events:

• ClubFEM members agree to be in the FemDomme and male submissive roles exclusively at ClubFEM parties and events.
• There is no requirement for Dommes or subs to engage in BDSM play (scenes). Although some may choose to play, many people attend parties to socialize and learn techniques by watching others.
• Males are to behave respectfully to all Females at all times.
• All ClubFEM submissives are expected to bring an attitude of servitude and submission. They should be willing to serve refreshments and treat the Women respectfully. Submissives are not obligated to engage in any form of play without consent and negotiation.
• Males are to address Females as Mistress or other proper titles as designated by the Dominant.
• Dominant attire for Females may include leather, latex, vinyl, modest lingerie and/or black clothing. The most important is to be themselves which I know includes the all important attitude of dominance.
• Males may appear semi-nude or nude at ClubFEM parties. Although men are usually expected to wear a collar and a thong, other appropriate fetish or cross-dressed outfits are also allowed. A leash, wrist and ankle cuffs are optional. Boxer shorts and men's briefs are not considered appropriate attire under any circumstances.
• Females are to refrain from touching or commanding a collared slave without his Owners permission.
• Males who wish to be available to any Domme for servitude or BDSM play scenes will politely let the Head Mistress know. However, informing the Head Mistress does not obligate an engagement for play nor does it negate the need to negotiate a scene.